Sunday, April 14, 2013

Happy Birthday Miss Eloise!

Our Sweet Ellie Bean is ONE Year Old Today!



We can't believe how fast time is flying. We've had Eloise home for six months now and today she turned one year old! Eloise has changed so much in the last 6 months and we've enjoyed seeing her grow and progress.

When we brought Eloise home on October 16th, 2012 she was a tiny 13 pound 6 month old who couldn't sit up on her own or bear much weight on her legs. She was lethargic, unresponsive, and didn't make a peep! But little by little we saw her blossom and grow. She started exercising those vocal cords and making her needs known, she became more active, she learned to sit, then crawl, then stand on her own. She started smiling whenever we entered the room. She started crying when we left! She started laughing at her big brother. She started pulling our faces in for a kiss.

Today Eloise is a happy, healthy one year old! She is a giggly little girl who loves to smile and laugh. She thinks her big brother is THE GREATEST thing since sliced bread. She LOVES baby dolls and will pull her doll in for a hug and kiss when she sees it (SO different from Isaiah!). She knows please, thank you, more, all done, and bye bye in sign language. She also knows how to say the words Dada (no Mama yet!), all done, thank you, uh-oh, and poo poo. Her very first word was "hot", the same first word as Isaiah (no, I did not try to make that happen!). 

Eloise is miss speedster in the crawling department. She can get anywhere she wants to go in her walker or by crawling. She walks along furniture and crosses from one piece to the next but no walking on her own yet. She can stand by herself though so it's not far off! She is a climber and loves to climb on the couch and into any little bucket or box she can find.

Little Ellie Bean is a cuddle bug and I absolutely LOVE IT!!!! Isaiah was not a cuddly baby (although he's more snugly now that he's a toddler - go figure!). Eloise will lay her head on your shoulder, pat your back while you hold her, pull your face in for a kiss, and hug you tightly. Some of my favorite times are snuggling with my baby girl! She is such a sweetheart.

Eloise is a pretty laid back baby. Isaiah was a good baby, but Eloise is a great baby! She is a bit more whiny than Isaiah was (a girl thing!?!) but for the most part so content. She can entertain herself for very long periods of time. She also plays well with Isaiah. They have just recently started "playing" together although much of it is still side by side play. But each day I see them interact more. Also, the fighting has already started although it's still few and far between. They will fight in the bathtub over a WASHCLOTH. Seriously?? =)

Eloise is a good sleeper though she doesn't require as much as Isaiah did at this age. She usually sleeps 11-12 hours straight through the night and takes two naps during the day. Can't complain there! She eats a wide variety of foods, still nurses several times a day, and loves her fruits and veggies!

Eloise Ann Hutcheson is our blessing and our Joy. We are so thankful the Lord blessed us with her precious little life. We look forward to the years to come as we watch her grow into the young woman God has planned for her to be!

Happy Birthday Eloise!

The birthday girl!
Eloise: "Umm...this string thing is really getting on my nerves."
"I think I'll just pull it and get it off my face."
"AHHHHHHH! That was a BAD idea!"
Right before she grabbed the cupcake and burned her hand with a little wax!
Trying to convince her that the cupcake was not going to hurt her. After she got burned she was so scared of it! =)
Adelynn being silly and Isaiah thinking she's like the coolest thing ever!
Being goofy.
"Yay! I tried the cupcake and it didn't burn me!"
Frosting kisses for mom.
Nice lipstick Adelynn.
Messy kisses from Daddy.
"Mmmmmm, this cupcake thing is actually pretty GOOD!"
She finally got into it and discovered she loved it! =)
Mr. Cool with his sunglasses.
My two cuties!!!
Can't remember why Isaiah didn't have a shirt on....lol.
The cute little backpack Eloise got from Meema and Papa .
Isaiah got something from Meema and Papa too!
A little monkey which he LOVES!
Happy birthday sweet girl. Mommy, Daddy, and Isaiah LOVE you!!




Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Where Are The Wilberforces of Today?


Recently during our morning office devotions, one of my colleagues encouraged us with the life of William Wilberforce and shared about this remarkable individual. Wilberforce, as you may know, was one of the central figures during eighteenth century Europe who helped pioneer the end of the horrid injustice of the African slave trade. Although he did not become a believer until later in life, he eventually became a Christian at which point his conviction to fight for the abolishment of the slave trade became his calling.

This post is not about Wilberforce himself as much as it about a wake up call for the Christian Church and about taking action in our faith, as well as my work at IJM.


 

Wilberforce's faith should excite and ignite us. It's a story of undying perseverance. I love seeing someone who goes against all odds, embracing a large challenge, all out of a conviction for what they believe is right. This was Wilberforce, but the most awesome thing is that in large part what he did was out of conviction for Christ.

Where are the Wilberforces of today? That is to say, where is the conviction to have action-oriented faith within the Christian church today? Where are those men and women who are willing to examine their hearts and then examine the culture in which they live, then take a stand for the narrow way?

Since living here in Uganda and working for IJM, I've come to view the story of Wilberforce quite differently, and with much more respect. We mainly focus on the end of Wilberforce's story, how eventually a bill in parliament was passed to begin the end of the slave trade. What we often overlook is the fact it took Wilberforce and others over twenty years of tireless, often times discouraging and always painstaking work before they received the progress needed to end the slave trade. That, my friend, is what's called staying faithful to the call. That is perseverance at its core.

Right now at IJM in Uganda, we have undergone a multi-year area wide project called Project Empannyi. This project involves the coordination of judges, magistrates, lawyers, the local police department, pastors, churches, the general public, and radio and television ad campaigns all in an attempt to end an injustice that plagues the area we work in. The hard work demanded by this project never stops and often times it can seem as though the breakthrough we need is all but a dream.

 
Nevertheless, if there's anything Wilberforce teaches us, it's that persevering through a call does not mean fretting over the challenges, but focusing on striving for the victory to be had. The work we do at IJM has taught me that in every country and culture there are horrid injustices that exist. But that, as Christians, we can make a difference if we allow our faith in Christ to make us take action. As a result of this, I find at the office everyday, my colleagues, who live and breathe to fight injustice and corruption for the sake of others - it never gets old! And despite the odds against our work, we see God show up in miraculously breathtaking ways and alter the lives of the victims we serve.

On a smaller, more individual scale, I think this practically looks like examining our sphere of influence and our sphere of existence. Then, within them, seizing opportune ways to do something which in large part, we can attribute to our faith. And this is what it's all about, all that justice and the gospel is about - making much of the Savior. Whether directly or indirectly, this is what Wilberforce ultimately did, all out of the faith he had in the same God we place our faith in.

Where are the Wilberforces of today?

Thursday, April 4, 2013

Eloise - Home Six Months!

Eloise has been in our family almost 6 months now and we've seen so much change in her! When we brought her home she was a lethargic 6 month old who we couldn't get to smile or even respond to us. Today she is a happy, healthy, and energetic one year old whose giggle brightens our day! She has attached extremely well and is developmentally on target. She has come so far in just six months and fits into our family perfectly!

The name Eloise has been our name for a girl for a very long time now! As difficult as it was for us to chose a boy's name when we had Isaiah, we were always sure about our girl's name of Eloise! The name Eloise means "warrior" and her middle name, Ann, means "gracious and merciful". Our prayer for our baby girl is that she will grow to be a very strong, gracious, and merciful warrior for Christ! (Ann is also the middle name of my (Amber's) mom and my grandma (my dad's mom) so it is a very special family name to us!).

The life verse we chose for Eloise is:

"He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end."


Ecclesiastes 3:11


We chose this verse for Eloise because we believe God is doing something truly beautiful in Eloise's life. Her story starts out with a lot pain and heartache. It is not pretty. Yet God is changing sweet Ellie's story. He is rewriting it, and you know what? It is BEAUTIFUL! Our human minds cannot fathom what God is doing from the beginning of her story to the end, but we know that in HIS time he is writing a wonderful story for her life. God’s works are done well; there is order, harmony, and beauty in them all. We can’t yet understand all that He’s done concerning the past or the future, but at the proper time we’ll see how beautiful it all is!

More to come later, but here are a few picture from Eloise's first 6 months with us. Oh how we love our precious baby girl!!!

The day we first met Eloise- 4 months old.

Daddy's girl from the start.

Visiting Eloise in the orphanage before we could bring her home.

The pretty little girl we couldn't wait to bring home!

Isaiah was smitten with his new sister!
 
First day home. We were all a little sleepy but happy to finally be HOME with our new little girl!

Eloise- 6 months old!
 
Our new family of FOUR!

Sweet Eloise, 7 months old!
8 months old
 
9 months old
 
10 months old

Just like her big brother, Eloise loves anything having to do with water- especially bath time.
Ellie's second trip to the equator in only 10 months of life! Some people never make it there in their entire lifetime!
10.5 months old


Sitting in big brothers car seat while on a safari with Grandpa!

She LOVES her big brother and has to do whatever he does!

Pretty girl in her cute swimsuit!

Eloise LOVES the water!
 
11 months old

Almost one!!

Two cuties in a tub!

Thursday, March 28, 2013

We have someone we'd like you to meet!!!!

Introducing...
 
Eloise Ann Hutcheson





 
Born April 14, 2012
Home forever October 16, 2012
Legally ours March 28, 2013
 
We are overjoyed to announce that we have been granted legal guardianship of our sweet sweet daughter!! God is good and so faithful! More pictures to come soon! =)

Father to the fatherless, defender of widows—
this is God, whose dwelling is holy.
God places the lonely in families
Psalm 68:5-6

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Don't Miss the Miracle of THIS Moment

It’s time for letting go
All of our if only’s
‘Cause we don’t have a time machine
And even if we did

Would we really want to use it?
Would we really want to go change everything?
‘Cause we are who and where

And what we are for now
And this is the only moment
We can do anything about

So breathe it in and breathe it out
And listen to your heartbeat
There’s a wonder in the here and now
It’s right there in front of you
I don’t want you to miss the miracle of the moment

There’s only one who knows
What’s really out there waiting
In all the moments yet to be
And all we need to know

Is He’s out there waiting
To Him the future’s history
And He has given us
A treasure called right now
And this is the only moment
We can do anything about

So breathe it in and breathe it out
And listen to your heartbeat
There’s a wonder in the here and now
It’s right there in front of you
I don’t want you to miss the miracle of the moment

And if it brings you tears
Then taste them as they fall
And let them soften your heart
And if it brings you laughter

Then throw your head back
And let it go, let it go, yeah
You gotta let it go
And listen to your heartbeat, yeah

Breathe it in and breathe it out
And listen to your heartbeat
There’s a wonder in the here and now
It’s right there in front of you
I don’t want you to miss the miracle of the moment

Steven Curtis Chapman- Miracle of the Moment


No matter what you are going through, don't let it cloud your view so much that you miss the miracle of what God is doing in your life in this very moment. You may wish you could go back in time and change what has happened so you could have a different outcome. You may be hoping and praying that these days, weeks, months, and years go by quickly so that you will finally be in a "better" place. You may feel like the place you are in right now is the deepest, darkest, most awful place you have ever been in in your entire life and you are begging God is bring you out of it quickly, to change the situation, to alleviate your pain.

But God isn't in the business of making our lives trouble free. He never said the Christian life would be void of heartache and pain. Yet He is making a beautiful masterpiece out of your life and He promises to NEVER leave you nor forsake you. What's happened in the past is exactly that....it's in the past. There is nothing you can do about it now. Stop re-playing the past in your mind and rehearsing the "what if's". In the same way, what may happen in the future is just a huge list of uncertainties so stop worrying about what may happen and live in the right now, fully experiencing what IS happening. .

Don't miss the miraculous things God wants to show you in THIS VERY DAY!!!!!


"God
does not promise
to lead us in paths of
prosperity or popularity,
paths of
comfort or temporary happiness.
He promises to lead us in
paths of righteousness,
which means
God will sometimes lead us into
pain
and
discomfort
for our holiness.
And this is good for us.
It is good because
in those moments
we hold tightly to Him
and in those moments
we are conformed more
to the image of His Son.
This results in our joy."
-- Eric Geiger

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Court Date!

"Give yourself fully to the adventure of today.  Walk boldly along the path of Life, relying on your ever-present Companion.  You have every reason to be confident, because My Presence accompanies you all the days of your life- and onward into eternity.  Do not give in to fear or worry, those robbers of abundant living.  Trust Me enough to face problems as they come, rather than trying to anticipate them.  Fix your eyes on Me, the Author and Perfecter of your faith, and many difficulties on the road ahead will vanish before you reach them.  Whenever you start to feel afraid, remember that I am holding you by your right hand.  Nothing can separate you from My Presence!"   Hebrews 12:2; Isaiah 41:13 (Jesus Calling)

(If you didn't read this quote at the top, read it. Seriously....you will be glad you did.)

For those of you who haven't heard yet, our court date for our sweet baby girl is TOMORROW, March 21st!!


At this hearing we hope to obtain legal guardianship of our daughter. Upon receiving legal guardianship we will apply for her Ugandan passport and her visa to enter the U.S. These things come with their own uncertainties and difficulties and we'll be asking for prayer for those soon enough but right now we're focusing on one step at a time. We are asking that you join with us in prayer that this Thursday in court would go well and that within a week or two we would hear a FAVORABLE ruling from our judge! We believe we have a solid case and we know we have a great lawyer, so we feel pretty confident about the process but there is still the fear that things may not go smoothly.


We have been assigned a great judge as far as adoptions go. He has granted legal guardianship to hundreds of international families and is very favorable towards adoptions. We were told that he likes to see that families are well versed with Ugandan culture. So, we have done several things to strengthen our case. We bought Ugandan outfits for all of us and took pictures to give to the judge. We visited the Ugandan cultural center and the King's Palace and bought a $25 certificate showing that we went (we were told he LOVES this), we figured out wich "clan" Baby Girl is from (She's an "eel"), and we made a photo album with pictures of Baby Girl and our family at historic places such as the Equator and with traditional Ugandan dancers. Not to mention the fact that I lived in Africa for 12 years and Uganda specifically for 5 years growing up, Drew and I have lived here for a year, and my parents live here (and I have two Ugandan adopted sisters!). We feel our case is strong but with Ugandan adoption you never know when a curve ball will be thrown into the mix.

As well as praying that we would receive a favorable ruling, please pray that the judge would see us in a timely manner and that the kids would be good while we wait. We are supposed to be to our Lawyer's office by noon tomorrow but she said the judge may not see us until between 2-7 pm. Our judge is notorious for making people wait, apparently! That's a long time for an active 2 1/2 year old and 11 month old to wait in a little waiting room while missing naps and having nothing to do!

Thanks for being a part of this journey with us. And thank you for your prayers! We will keep you updated!


For I am the Lord your God  
who takes hold of your right hand
and says to you, Do not fear;
I will help you.
Isaiah 41:13